34 thoughts on “My Infertility and InVitro Journey”
Beautiful post Kristy and resonated so much with me and what my husband and I are currently going through, I love that people now speak so openly about their fertility issues, it definitely makes me feel less alone! Can’t wait for the next installment,
Thank you so much Rachel…That means so much to me. I wish you all the luck and love as you go through your journey. :) Stay positive and remember, you aren’t alone. Hugs! xx
I love how you are sharing your story. When I found out that my husband and I had to do IVF we felt ashamed and my husband didn’t want to talk about it. Cannot wait to do our round in March!
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I’m struggling with infertility myself and I feel like it’s one of the loneliest struggles to go through. Reading your story makes me want to be optimistic and try to be positive throughout this process and I love hearing success stories. I do understand what you mean about talking about it helps, it’s just hard to find an understanding audience sometimes. My husband and I are doing ivf in the new year and I’m hopeful we’ll finally be blessed with a baby.
I was very fortunate to conceive twin boys after IVF almost 22 years ago. I had no fallopian tubes. One fallopian tube was bad from scaring and the other lost through an ectopic pregnancy and ruptured. I went to the Genetics and IVF Institute in Fairfax, VA. For us, it took during the first cycle. We call them our miracle babies. I remember every bit of the shots, the procedures and driving every day almost 60 miles to the medical facility then to work. Pulling off the side of the road to do the timely injection leading up to the procedures. The bed rest when something was not right and we thought a miscarriage was occuring (but did not lose the twins). It’s a very emotional journey. The guilt of sitting in the waiting room and hearing the stories that other women were on their 3rd or even 6th try. I sat in silence, because it took the first time for me but never once did I take it for granted. I knew that there was a chance of a miscarriage. Never once did I complian about my pregnancy or the discomfort. I was blessed! I was given a very special gift and to that I am forever grateful.
Congratulations and thanks for sharing your story Tammy! I couldn’t agree more.. it’s such an emotional journey. Off topic, I lived in Fairfax for a few years and loved it. Hugs! xoxo
Loved this blog post! I do not struggle with infertility but I have a few friends that do and it is so hard for them to express how they are feeling. Reading your blog really helped me understand a little bit more of what they go through and also what I’m sure they are also feeling through the whole process. Can’t wait for part two! ?
It’s amazing to me how many people actually do struggle with infertility. I’m very open with my struggle but so many people don’t talk about it. So, thank you for sharing your journey! My husband and I have been trying on and off for about 4 years. We both work from home and have independent insurance so everytime we try for a baby it’s so expensive for us! I feel guity when it doesn’t work. The doctors can’t find a reason why I can’t get pregnant which can be very frustrating at times. Last year, I did a few rounds of IUI and nothing. My doctor had me try a new medicine and it did not react well with my body. It took me a few months to get back to feeling like myself, and I’ve been nervous to try again. My husband and I have always said that we will be happy with or without children. However, one of my friends just went through the IVF process and got pregnant so I feel like that has given me the confidence and the excitement to want to try again. No more feeling down about my situation! I’m hoping to start the process again next year. Looking forward to part 2 of your journey! :)
I wish you all the luck in the world Kelly… I know how difficult this situation is. Stay as positive and strong as you can and just know that you are not alone. xoxo
Is that a typo where you say you tried for six WEEKS before you started Clomid? I assume you meant to write six months since that’s only one cycle and I know from my own experience that my doctors wouldn’t start me on clomid until at least a year of trying. I’m Surprised you had such bad endometriosis and didn’t really resonate until you thought about it. Can’t wait to read more.
Hi there, please read my comment to Jackie. Thanks.
No… I’m a doctor’s kid and I had already tried a little before going in and knew exactly what to say and how to approach everything. I can’t tell you how much of a difference it makes with the approach. I had my books in hand and my research. She got it and I’m so glad. My dad was Chief of Staff of a hospital and taught me to be strong and to know my situation. He also taught me that in order to handle insurance and doctors I needed to have the best educated approach and research. :)
As to my endometriosis… It’s one of the hardest things to diagnose. I have spoken to many who had no clue like myself… I always assumed bad cramps were normal. How was I to know? I never wanted to be a complainer so I don’t think I realized how bad my cramps really were or that they were unusual.
Wow. I had to wait a year with my first and then it took another 1.5 of tests etc and I got pregnant naturally. My second took a year to get pregnant so I never sought help. I’m currently trying for my third and went to see my doctor after 9 months of trying and he said I had to wait a year. Even though I’m 37. So frustrating. Thanks for your answer. Good thing you didn’t waste more time.
Hugs and good luck Jackie… xx
Loved reading your journey about infertility. I’m 45 & can never have a child. I suffered from Fibroids, Polylps on my uterus. Extreme cramping caused by Endomyosis (sp?) & Endometriosis. Had 6 surgeries & then a Hysterectomy 3 years ago. I cried & told my husband to leave me to find someone who can give him s child. He thought I was crazy & God loving, stayed by my side. I yearn for a child & avoid baby showers if I can, selfish I know. My dog is my baby ? So, Thank You for sharing! ?
I’m so excited to read this part of your journey! The part where he said he didn’t need to flip a coin made me cry. & writing it here made me cry again. How sweet.
I appreciate reading about your and Jeff’s journey to having Emma! Although I didn’t experience infertility, so many woman have or are and this will be comforting.. I also enjoy getting to know you and Jeff more through your candid posts! You’ve have such a sweet relationship and family.
So hard! My girlfriend, Rhonda had the same thing and it was so difficult for her. She became pregnant right away with her first and then tried 4 IVF attempts to have another. She decided to quit trying after she never became pregnant and she is now so happy with her sweet daughter. Life does move on and it can be beautiful… xx
Thank you so much for sharing your IVF story .I am a newlywed and there’s nothing more that we want more ,than to become parents . I have been a teacher in Santa Clara for eleven years and I love children . Unfortunately I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2016 which is one of the leading causes of infertility. Thinking of not being able to be a mother , with so much love to give , truly is devastating . But I love seeing your lovely post about never giving up hope and how God truly blesses us at the right time . I love how wonderful the month of April took a truth for the best . Thank you for lighting up my candle with your positive spark .
Hi Rebecca, Thanks so much for dropping by and sharing. I totally know how you feel. It’s something no one else will ever understand until they have gone through this themselves. Keep hope and keep looking for answers and ways to make your dreams come true. Hugs!! xx
Hi Kristy, thanks so much for Sharing your story. Its always So reassuring to hear of someones success after having fertility issues. My husband and i have been trying for almost a year now, i felt so Alone In these struggles as all my friends seem to fall pregnant as soon as they trY.. its really helped me reading yours and so many others blogs online so id just like to say thanks for that! :) you have sUch a beautiful family and home, i always enjoy watching your inSta sTories! Xx
Hi Helen – Wow thank you so much for reading and commenting. Never give up hope, and just know that no matter what you’re going to have a beautiful life filled with those you love. There is support all around you. xx
Beautiful Story ? Thank you for sharing ?
I gave birth to my daughter at age 40 after 15 years of infertility. So very thankful for our daughter and thankful IVF ???
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Beautiful post Kristy and resonated so much with me and what my husband and I are currently going through, I love that people now speak so openly about their fertility issues, it definitely makes me feel less alone! Can’t wait for the next installment,
Thank you so much Rachel…That means so much to me. I wish you all the luck and love as you go through your journey. :) Stay positive and remember, you aren’t alone. Hugs! xx
I love how you are sharing your story. When I found out that my husband and I had to do IVF we felt ashamed and my husband didn’t want to talk about it. Cannot wait to do our round in March!
Good Luck Monica! I’m so excited for you… :) Hugs! xx
Incredible! You two went through so much as a newly young couple with such strong beliefs! Such a lovely story writer, looking forward to part 2
Thanks so much Vicki! You are so sweet…xx
Thank you so much for sharing your story! I’m struggling with infertility myself and I feel like it’s one of the loneliest struggles to go through. Reading your story makes me want to be optimistic and try to be positive throughout this process and I love hearing success stories. I do understand what you mean about talking about it helps, it’s just hard to find an understanding audience sometimes. My husband and I are doing ivf in the new year and I’m hopeful we’ll finally be blessed with a baby.
Good luck!!! So excited for you… Stay positive and remember, there is always a way. It just depends on the route you take. xx
I was very fortunate to conceive twin boys after IVF almost 22 years ago. I had no fallopian tubes. One fallopian tube was bad from scaring and the other lost through an ectopic pregnancy and ruptured. I went to the Genetics and IVF Institute in Fairfax, VA. For us, it took during the first cycle. We call them our miracle babies. I remember every bit of the shots, the procedures and driving every day almost 60 miles to the medical facility then to work. Pulling off the side of the road to do the timely injection leading up to the procedures. The bed rest when something was not right and we thought a miscarriage was occuring (but did not lose the twins). It’s a very emotional journey. The guilt of sitting in the waiting room and hearing the stories that other women were on their 3rd or even 6th try. I sat in silence, because it took the first time for me but never once did I take it for granted. I knew that there was a chance of a miscarriage. Never once did I complian about my pregnancy or the discomfort. I was blessed! I was given a very special gift and to that I am forever grateful.
Thank you for sharing your story.
Congratulations and thanks for sharing your story Tammy! I couldn’t agree more.. it’s such an emotional journey. Off topic, I lived in Fairfax for a few years and loved it. Hugs! xoxo
Loved this blog post! I do not struggle with infertility but I have a few friends that do and it is so hard for them to express how they are feeling. Reading your blog really helped me understand a little bit more of what they go through and also what I’m sure they are also feeling through the whole process. Can’t wait for part two! ?
You are so sweet Christa.. Thanks for commenting! :)
It’s amazing to me how many people actually do struggle with infertility. I’m very open with my struggle but so many people don’t talk about it. So, thank you for sharing your journey! My husband and I have been trying on and off for about 4 years. We both work from home and have independent insurance so everytime we try for a baby it’s so expensive for us! I feel guity when it doesn’t work. The doctors can’t find a reason why I can’t get pregnant which can be very frustrating at times. Last year, I did a few rounds of IUI and nothing. My doctor had me try a new medicine and it did not react well with my body. It took me a few months to get back to feeling like myself, and I’ve been nervous to try again. My husband and I have always said that we will be happy with or without children. However, one of my friends just went through the IVF process and got pregnant so I feel like that has given me the confidence and the excitement to want to try again. No more feeling down about my situation! I’m hoping to start the process again next year. Looking forward to part 2 of your journey! :)
I wish you all the luck in the world Kelly… I know how difficult this situation is. Stay as positive and strong as you can and just know that you are not alone. xoxo
Is that a typo where you say you tried for six WEEKS before you started Clomid? I assume you meant to write six months since that’s only one cycle and I know from my own experience that my doctors wouldn’t start me on clomid until at least a year of trying. I’m Surprised you had such bad endometriosis and didn’t really resonate until you thought about it. Can’t wait to read more.
I was wondering about the 6 weeks thing too!
Hi there, please read my comment to Jackie. Thanks.
No… I’m a doctor’s kid and I had already tried a little before going in and knew exactly what to say and how to approach everything. I can’t tell you how much of a difference it makes with the approach. I had my books in hand and my research. She got it and I’m so glad. My dad was Chief of Staff of a hospital and taught me to be strong and to know my situation. He also taught me that in order to handle insurance and doctors I needed to have the best educated approach and research. :)
As to my endometriosis… It’s one of the hardest things to diagnose. I have spoken to many who had no clue like myself… I always assumed bad cramps were normal. How was I to know? I never wanted to be a complainer so I don’t think I realized how bad my cramps really were or that they were unusual.
Wow. I had to wait a year with my first and then it took another 1.5 of tests etc and I got pregnant naturally. My second took a year to get pregnant so I never sought help. I’m currently trying for my third and went to see my doctor after 9 months of trying and he said I had to wait a year. Even though I’m 37. So frustrating. Thanks for your answer. Good thing you didn’t waste more time.
Hugs and good luck Jackie… xx
Loved reading your journey about infertility. I’m 45 & can never have a child. I suffered from Fibroids, Polylps on my uterus. Extreme cramping caused by Endomyosis (sp?) & Endometriosis. Had 6 surgeries & then a Hysterectomy 3 years ago. I cried & told my husband to leave me to find someone who can give him s child. He thought I was crazy & God loving, stayed by my side. I yearn for a child & avoid baby showers if I can, selfish I know. My dog is my baby ? So, Thank You for sharing! ?
I’m so excited to read this part of your journey! The part where he said he didn’t need to flip a coin made me cry. & writing it here made me cry again. How sweet.
Thanks Abbi… Jeff is the nicest man ever. Really.. xoxo
I appreciate reading about your and Jeff’s journey to having Emma! Although I didn’t experience infertility, so many woman have or are and this will be comforting.. I also enjoy getting to know you and Jeff more through your candid posts! You’ve have such a sweet relationship and family.
Thanks Amy… I am the luckiest girl in the world. I truly feel that way. :) Hugs xoxo
So brave of you to share your story! I’m struggling with secondary infertility. Thanks for sharing! ?
So hard! My girlfriend, Rhonda had the same thing and it was so difficult for her. She became pregnant right away with her first and then tried 4 IVF attempts to have another. She decided to quit trying after she never became pregnant and she is now so happy with her sweet daughter. Life does move on and it can be beautiful… xx
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Thank you so much for sharing your IVF story .I am a newlywed and there’s nothing more that we want more ,than to become parents . I have been a teacher in Santa Clara for eleven years and I love children . Unfortunately I was diagnosed with PCOS in 2016 which is one of the leading causes of infertility. Thinking of not being able to be a mother , with so much love to give , truly is devastating . But I love seeing your lovely post about never giving up hope and how God truly blesses us at the right time . I love how wonderful the month of April took a truth for the best . Thank you for lighting up my candle with your positive spark .
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Hi Rebecca, Thanks so much for dropping by and sharing. I totally know how you feel. It’s something no one else will ever understand until they have gone through this themselves. Keep hope and keep looking for answers and ways to make your dreams come true. Hugs!! xx
Hi Kristy, thanks so much for Sharing your story. Its always So reassuring to hear of someones success after having fertility issues. My husband and i have been trying for almost a year now, i felt so Alone In these struggles as all my friends seem to fall pregnant as soon as they trY.. its really helped me reading yours and so many others blogs online so id just like to say thanks for that! :) you have sUch a beautiful family and home, i always enjoy watching your inSta sTories! Xx
Hi Helen – Wow thank you so much for reading and commenting. Never give up hope, and just know that no matter what you’re going to have a beautiful life filled with those you love. There is support all around you. xx
Beautiful Story ? Thank you for sharing ?
I gave birth to my daughter at age 40 after 15 years of infertility. So very thankful for our daughter and thankful IVF ???
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Congratulations Emma and Zach ?